Parenting & Family Education
子育てと家庭教育
"Parenthood is the state of being of the parents who give birth to, look after and raise a child. When parents enjoy and have a happy parenthood, their children will have a happy childhood."
「“親である”とは、子供を産み、世話をし、育てる責任を果たす事です。親が親である事を楽しんでいるなら子供たちは幸せな子供時代を過ごすでしょう。」
"How to enjoy my parent time, it seems unlike what I expect to be a parent?"
親である事をどのように楽しみますか。自分が想像していた親像とは異なりますか?
"How to communicate with my spouse about the needs of each other?"
お互いの必要について配偶者とどの様にコミュニケーションを取りますか?
"How to work with my spouse as a team?
チームとして配偶者と一緒に働く方法とは?
"Frustrated, helpless, and difficulty in exhausted in child's difficulties?"
子供が難しい状況にある時、あなたは苛立ち、無力感、困難を覚え疲れ果てていませんか?
"Always emotionally and physically exhausted with my little baby?"
小さな赤ちゃんと一緒にいて、感情的にも肉体的にもいつも疲れ果てていませんか?
What is parenting? 子育てとは?
Parenting is more than focusing on knowledge or learning the skills of parenting or science of child development. The relationship building between parents and child is important. Discovering a suitable and unique way of parenting with your child is a form of art work. Awareness and understanding of both your strengths and predicaments as a parent, and your child as a special and unique human being in your family are fundamental.
子育て”とは知識を得たり、スキルアップに焦点を当てたり、教育学を学ぶ以上の事が関係しています。より良い親子関係を築くことが重要です。あなたのお子さんにとって最適かつユニークな子育て方法を見つけ出すことが、教える技術に繋がります。親であるあなた自身の長所と短所を認識し理解する、そしてお子さんが家族の特別な一員であると認める事が基本です。
What is parent education? 親の教育とは?
Parental education programs are designed to enhance parents' attitudes, knowledge, and skills needed to promote the physical, cognitive, and psycho-social development of children at different stages (Mahoney, Kaiser & Girolametto, 1999). These programs not only provide support for parents to develop coping, communication, and problem-solving skills, but also encourage their personal growth. Holistic development of parenthood is an important aspect of parent education programs. This means that in addition to knowledge and skills of parenting, the focus should also be on the personal growth of parents. Several studies have shown that holistic approaches to parent education can have a significant impact on the well-being of both parents and children.
一般的に、「様々な段階の子供の身体的、精神的、社交的発達促進に必要な親の態度、知識、スキルを強化する為のプログラム」と呼ばれています。(Mahoney, Kaiser & Girolametto, 1999) それはまた、対処スキル、コミュニケーションスキル、問題解決スキルと、親自身の自己啓発促進支援も含んでいます。いくつかの研究は、親の教育は親全体の発展を目指すべきと示唆しています。つまり子育ての知識とスキルに加え、親の個人的な成長に焦点を当てるべきである事を意味しています。
Step.1
Puzzle @ Mind
When you turn to be a new parent, your status changed. However, is your psychological ready for being a parent? Being a new parent, it can be the most intense, stressful and emotional in your life.
When you are a parent, do you enjoy the time with your children? Or sometimes felt exhausted of looking after or teaching, guiding your children?
Step.2
Seek Consultation/Counseling
1. Have a safe space to process your unspeakable emotions & feelings as a parent (especially as a new parent), achieving an appropriate balance for you.
2.Understand your beliefs towards your parenting style & attitude
3. Learn emotional management and how to be concerned about your child's emotions and feelings.
4. Adjustment issue: transitioning through critical moments or changes in life such as emigration, illness, separation or death
5. Adjust personal expectations and understand of the strengths and weaknesses of your child and yourself.
6. Understanding the cognitive development of a child
7. Enhance your sensitivity of your needs and those of your child
8. Form a secure relationship/attachment with your baby/child
9. Treasure parenthood, and provide a nourishing, happy childhood to your child
10. Understand your parenting style and communication style, choosing the most effective ways of building a trusting relationship with your child
11. Work as a team with your spouse and support each other
Step.3
Book an Initial Session
- Assess to personal expectation on counseling/parent education/consultation
- Assessment on your difficulties or challenges facing parenting or family education
- Agreement on logistic matters during counseling process
- Collaborate and formulate the goal for counseling/parent education/consultation
FEE
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Initial consultation 親との初診相談: ¥11,000/75 mins (稅入)
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Subsequent consultationその後の親との相談: ¥8,800/50 mins (稅入)